Mod suggestions for first timer?

Hello, just finished playing through the whole bhaalspawn saga and I enjoyed it a lot though at some point it got easy so I installed SCS to make it more challenging.

I'll play ID:EE next and I almost always make only one completionist playthrough. Trying to figure out what mods to include is confusing me a bit. I found this comment:
"My Fixpack, Unfinished Business, and Item Upgrade mods are built into the Enhanced Editions. IWD Tweaks--now Tweaks Anthology--is not."
which means some key mods are already included.

The Icewind Dale NPCs seems very appealing as I love banter.

Two mods that caught my eye are Baldurs-gate-dnd-3.5 and The Tweaks Anthology. What are your thoughts on them ? Are they compatible to each other ? Are there any other popular mods I should consider ? In what order should I install them ?

I'd be grateful for any kind of help, thanks.